The Eighth and Final Square

with courage face the thing you fear so the pawn becomes the queen

Archive for March, 2013

I came across this image posted on a page on Facebook earlier. (I don’t know anything about the website that’s on it, I just left it on to credit them.) It reads If you have trouble trusting children, perhaps it’s because you were never trusted as a child. As children, we take in the treatment adults give us and unconsciously carry those lessons into adulthood. I wasn’t trusted as a kid. My parents made it VERY clear they didn’t trust […]

Posted by Phoenix On Mar - 14 - 2013 Add Comments READ FULL POST

There’s a saying that’s been going around for a long time, “Be nice to your kids, they’ll choose your nursing home.”  I never realized until just now how absolutely true that is. For a very, very long time I believed I owed my parents everything. This probably was due a lot to the fact that they thought my whole existence was to please them. They would tell us on a regular basis that since they raised us, and mom put […]

Posted by Phoenix On Mar - 12 - 2013 1 Comment READ FULL POST
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