Ari has a habit lately of not taking very long naps. I don’t know what prompted this, or how to get her to sleep longer, and it’s frustrating for the both of us. She slept 20 minutes today, and refused to go back to sleep even though she was sooo tired. The floor was covered in her toys and stuff, but all she wanted was my phone (which I’ve stopped letting her play with since she keeps calling people!), my keyboard, my mouse, my remote, even though she has her own keyboard, mouse, and remote. Besides wanting my stuff, all she wanted was to play on my lap, crawling back and forth over me from side to side. When you’re trying to do something, that really doesn’t work. So, I took her to the play place at the mall. It’s the second time she’d been there. I spent the...
Libby Anne is doing a series on HSLDA vs. CPS, so I figured I’d try and pound out a quick post from my experiences. I’m not going to write very much about HSLDA, but I’ll link to Libby’s posts so you can go read more about them if you’re unfamiliar. Basically, HSLDA (Home School Legal Defense Association) has morphed into an organization that prevents abuse from being investigated. When we were kids, we heard the horror stories…the kids who were taken away from their parents because they were spanked; the kids who were taken away from their parents because they were playing outside during school hours; the kids who were taken away from their parents because they were Christians; the kids who were taken away from their parents just because they homeschooled. Even Frank Peretti wrote a book about a single dad whose children were taken away because he...
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I came across this image posted on a page on Facebook earlier. (I don’t know anything about the website that’s on it, I just left it on to credit them.) It reads If you have trouble trusting children, perhaps it’s because you were never trusted as a child. As...
There’s a saying that’s been going around for a long time, “Be nice to your kids, they’ll choose your nursing home.” I never realized until just now how absolutely true that is. For a very, very long time I believed I owed my parents everything. This probably was due...
Whenever I wonder if I’ve made progress from where I’ve come, I just need to look at my dreams. I’ve had a lot of dreams about my family since I left, and in the beginning I was passive in my dreams. Then, even though I was passive, I would...
A friend of mine posted on her Facebook today that Megan and Grace Phelps-Roper (granddaughters of the infamous Fred Phelps) left the Westboro cult in November (and, of course, were shunned, as I was). I’m not sure of the exact date, but only that last Sunday was her first...
Today, February 4th, Ari is exactly fourteen months old. She is such a goof! Right now, her favorite colors are red and hot pink. She says mama, dada, nee-nee (water), ni-ni (night-night), tick-oh (tickle), auma (Gramma/Aunty Tam, her favorite aunt), mmm (food), na-na (nummies), and a few other words that...
Hello, to anyone who still reads this! This is probably going to be just a rambly, update-y type post. Everyone else is all like posting great articles and I’m like I wish I could! I’ve been so focused on school school school that I feel too guilty to do...
Someone asked me why I’m agnostic and no longer a Christian, and I decided to go ahead and put it in a post since it ended up being so long! Anne, can/would you please tell me how or why you think of yourself as an agnostic or atheist? (I...
Ari started her birthday off with her morning nummies. She was reaching for the camera (as usual) LOL Yeah her lip goes funky when she nurses but it doesn’t hurt, promise! Next, she read her Elmo book. She loves books! And then more nummies. I LOVE her chubby little...
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Today was Ari’s first birthday!! I wanted to write out the birth story (about time, right?) and post it for her birthday but I didn’t have time. So I’ll hopefully post it (with pics from today) tomorrow. Her party is Thursday evening…just my inlaws, some family friends, and a...
Wow, it’s November already! Time is going extremely fast and extremely slow at the same time. It feels like just yesterday when Ari was born and now she’s nearly a year…but at the same time I remember all of the long nights and stuff. Kind of weird. Speaking of...
I’ve talked to a lot of people about the place I came from. They’re all like “I would have never stood for that!” or “I would have punched your dad in the face if I were you and he said that to me!” or “I would have just left!”...
It occurred to me in the middle if the night (after trying to sleep after being up for two hours with a baby who hates to sleep!) just what a dark place I came from, mentally. I was really depressed (and didn’t know it), and was told depression was...
I’ve started so many posts that I haven’t finished or published! I figured that since I’m just sitting here nursing the baby, that I’d just talk about stuff that’s happened lately! *** I got a job!!! I’m working at a Sears portrait studio. So far it’s a lot of...
I had an amazing day. A new mommy friend of mine picked me up (the unamazing part of the day was when we found out the car battery was dead) and we met a bunch of other mommy friends at the mall. That was all cool, but the most...
Who am I? I’m me, without apology. But who is “me”? What defines me? What do I want to be defined by? I don’t like labels. Labels put you in a neat packaged box. I don’t want to be in boxes anymore. So what do I do? In my...
I still remember the sick-to-my-stomach feeling when my dad wanted to know if I was going to leave or not. I’ve been gone two years now. Two years! Things have not always been smooth sailing. For the longest time, I felt so guilty when I admitted that things were...